Awkward Love

“Is love a fancy or a feeling?” – Marianne (Sense & Sensibility)

 

It’s been awhile since I last posted something…anything…on my blog. The new job, among other things, has been demanding much of my time and brain cell usage. I wanted to take a brief moment, before the busyness of the day consumes me, to share with you all this quick excerpt from the book, Captivating, that I just finished reading with my small group women:

For a woman to enjoy relationship, she must first repent of her need to control and her insistence that people fill her. Fallen Eve demands that people “come through” for her. Redeemed Eve is being met in the depths of her soul by Christ and is free to offer to others, free to desire and willing to be disappointed. Fallen Eve has been wounded by other and withdraws in order to protect herself from further harm. Redeemed Eve knows that she has something of value to offer; that she is made for relationship. Therefore, being safe and secure in her relationship with her Lord, she can risk being vulnerable with others and offer her true self.

To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possible broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it careful round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket of coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket – safe, dark, motionless, airless – it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable…The only place outside Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers…of love is Hell. (C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves)

Shalom,

Rachel B. Duke

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